Thoughts following a conversation with someone Thoghts following a silly conversation...

Dear So&So,

"I've made a terrible mistake." Is apparently the way people like to begin breakup letters. Ever written one? Weird things they are...

With these words, I can almost hear a chorus of voices chanting, "I didn't write it for him/her, I wrote it for meeeee," but the fact remains that not one of the letters included in Hell Hath No Fury begins "Dear Self & Partner."

I just wish that people would realise that things like romance-drenched letters are penned best by those who least need to write them. In other words, those who have already moved on. Unlike the frantic revisionism above, the most affecting writing is all anchored by a certain dignified inevitability.

So I'll just go ahead and suggest this as a future template for anyone else who needs advice on how to get started:

"So … if you do just want to be friends, let's just be friends and not do date-like stuff, because then I end up wanting to kiss you, and then you don't, and then I just feel stupid, which is not helping me … meet other people who might actually want to kiss me and date me, which is something I rather enjoy."

Which is for you if you're just "not-so-serious" about the relationship, otherwise the thing to remember is that all the best "it's over" letters all have but one message—"it's over."

oh, my god...

Well, I've just eaten about 50-60grams of cake icing. Why? You may ask... Well, its because this:



Hurts too much to allow me to eat solid food, which is annoying. Oh well. :) I've also done this:



Which is shaved at the back, but I can't see well enough behind myself to take a photo of that, so this is all you're getting at the moment.

I've also forgotten to go to firetiwirling meet on Thursday, which was very forgetful on my part. Although I did go out city-trashing at the Dome with everyone, which was awesome even if it did end in justdigi and ancksunamun getting very blotto and staying up all night. :( It was excellent to see djseverin and scattymatty and some_chic. I hope the coming weeks are just as fun-filled! :)

Oh and hello to the lovely lovely pussindocs, thank you so much for the flower, cupcake and card... I'm glad that Scatty could eat the cupcake though. :) *hugs* You are so nice!